This is the least fun post I think I've written up to this point. But I'm going to dive right in....
Yesterday afternoon, Scott came home from work at the lunch hour. I was surprised since he'd told me that morning that he wouldn't be coming home since he had a meeting scheduled around that time. The look on his face when he walked in made my heart drop into my stomach and I immediately knew what happened, without him even saying a word.
He was laid off.
He had no idea that this was coming. Granted, with the market the way it is, it's a minor miracle that he kept his job this long, but still, we were blindsided by this news. He was understandably upset by it, and I was too. Fortunately the company gave him a small severence on top of his final paycheck, so we'll be ok for a little while before we have to dip into our savings. Hopefully it never comes to that and he can just find a new job quickly. We've been praying really hard the last 2 days and Scott is at the temple tonight. I hope he finds comfort there. He seems better today than he was yesterday, but it's still a blow we weren't expecting.
The silver lining is that the boys got to spend all day with him today. And they'll be seeing a lot more of him over the next few weeks as he searches for another job. Before, between evening MBA classes, work and bishopric commitments, we weren't seeing much of him at home, so this will be a welcome change - especially for Mister who misses Scott so much when he's gone. I hope he's not home for too long (so finances don't get too tight), but we'll enjoy it while he's here.
But I'm telling you, when it rains, it pours. My good friend's husband lost his job yesterday too. And another family friend got laid off yesterday as well. And I just found out another friend and her daughters are having to live apart from her husband (and the girls' father, obviously) while he's in grad school. It's just an awful economy right now and it seems like everyone's getting hit hard. But I have a lot to be grateful for. We are still all together as a family, with a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs and food on the table. We might be tightening the proverbial belt around here, but we'll make it and we'll be ok.
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What a not fun situation. I know there really aren't any words I can say right now that haven't already been said or that will make things better, so I'm not even going to try. Just want you to know though that you guys are in our prayers. Please let us know if you need anything, even if it's just someone to talk to.
We will keep your family in our prayers and that scott will get a job soon. We love you guys.
You are in our prayers. So sorry. We love you.
Oooooh, I'm so sorry to hear it. Best wishes and prayers for you.
Hang in there my love. Often these events present new opportunites. I am there for anything you need. I love you.
WOW! Awesome attitude though.I'll keep you all in my prayers too. Good luck you two, and never hesitate to ask if you need anything. I also agree with irma, "new opportunities"--at least the opportunity to be strengthened right!?
I'm sorry to hear about being laid off. I just wish the economy was looking better. Scott is a great worker and he'll find something. We'll keep you in our prayers. But just so you know. The rain in Hawaii never lasts long at all. So hopefully you'll get to see a rainbow soon.
Sorry to hear your news Marissa- things will work out though. At least you have a great attitude about it. You're in our prayers as well.
Sorry to hear about that. We'll be praying for you guys.
Oh Marissa, I'm so sorry to hear that. My friend Kate got laid off on Friday... this economy has just gone to heck.
Reading your post has just made me realize even more that we need to get out of DC- if Kiel or I lost our job I wouldn't even know what we'd do- we aren't able to save ANYTHING with prices the way they are out here. So scary to think about. Luckily, with faith, anything is possible and every obstacle can be overcome and make you stronger and wiser in the process. :) xoxo
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